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Wedding Invite - from parents of the Bride
Wedding Invite - from the parents of
the Bride and the parents
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Reception
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Wedding Invite - from Mother (if Father is deceased) and has not remarried:
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Reception
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Wedding Invite - from Father (if Mother is deceased) and has not remarried:
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Reception
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Wedding Invite – from Mother and Step-Father:
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Reception
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Wedding Invite - from Father and Step-Mother:
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Mr. and Mrs. Robert Evans Smith
Reception
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Wedding Invite – from parents (which have remarried):
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Mr. and Mrs. Kyle Aaron Willow
Reception |
Wedding Invite – from parents who are divorced (but not remarried):
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Mrs. Megan Anne Willow Reception |
Wedding Invite – from divorced Mother:
Mrs. Megan Anne Willow
request the
honour of your presence
at the marriage of her daughter
Lisa Marie
Smith
to
Mr. Tyler Reno Plante
on Saturday, the fifth of May
two thousand and eight
at six o’clock in the evening
First Church of Christ
265 Main Street
Madison, Wyoming
Reception
immediately following the
ceremony
Madison Country Club
100 Hunter Road
Wedding Invite – from parents of the Groom:
Mr. and Mrs. Scott Robert Plante
request
the honour of your presence
at the marriage of
Miss Lisa Marie
Smith
to their son
Tyler Reno Plante
on Saturday, the fifth of
May
two thousand and eight
at six o’clock in the evening
East
Hampton Christian Center
265 Main Street
East Hampton,
Nebraska
Reception
immediately following the
ceremony
Hampton Country Club
Wedding Invite – from both the parents of the Bride and the Groom:
Mr. and Mrs. Robert Evans Smith
and
Mr. and Mrs. Scott Robert Plante
request the honour of your
presence
at the marriage of
Lisa Marie Smith
and
Tyler
Reno Plante
on Saturday, the fifth of May
two thousand and eight
at six o’clock in the evening
First Church of Christ
265 Main
Street
Newport, Rhode Island
Reception
immediately following the
ceremony
Mansions Country Club
Wedding Invite – from the couple themselves – Formal Wording:
The honour of your presence
is requested
at the marriage of
Lisa Marie Smith
to
Tyler Reno Plante
on Saturday, the fifth of May
two thousand and eight
at six
o’clock in the evening
Most Holy Redeemer Church
265 Main Street
Hampton, South Dakota
Reception
immediately following the
ceremony
Hampton Country Club
Wedding Invite – from the couple themselves – Informal Wording:
Celebrating Our Love
Lisa Marie Smith
and
Tyler Reno Plante
at two o’clock
Saturday, the
Fifteenth of June
two thousand and six
Cornerstone Chapel
Plano, Texas
Reception
immediately following the
ceremony
1435 Plano Avenue
Plano Texas
Wedding Invite – from the couple themselves – Informal Wording 2:
Lisa Smith Tyler Plante
Please join us
and our families
as we celebrate our Wedding
with a weekend of Joy
and Festivities
August the Eighteenth through the Twentieth
the
year Two Thousand
~
Friday, Seven o’clock
Wurstfest and
Barndance
Saturday, Six o’clock
Ceremony, Dinner & Dancing
~
Sunday, Eleven o’clock
Picnic Brunch
At our home in
Great Barrington
Wedding Invite – from the couple themselves – Informal Wording 3:
We invite you to join us
in celebrating
our love
On this day we will marry the one
we laugh with, live
for, dream with, love
We have chosen to continue our growth
through marriage, please join
Lisa Marie Smith
&
Tyler
Reno Plante
on Saturday, the sixteenth of October
two thousand
four
at three o’clock in the afternoon
Hampton Vineyard &
Winery
Hampton, California
Feast and Merriment to follow
Encore Weddings:
Wedding Invite – from the children of the Bride:
Miss Kelly Anne Plante and Master Liam Lyle
Plante
request the pleasure of your company
at the marriage of
their Mother
Ms. Lisa Marie Plante
to
Mr. John Boyd Willow
on Saturday, the fifth of May
two thousand and eight
at six
o’clock in the evening
Everett Country Club
Everett,
Connecticut
Reception
immediately following the
ceremony
Wedding Invite – from a widow or older couple:
Mrs. Rose Anne Willow
and
Mr. Liam
James Richardson
Request the honour of your presence
at their
marriage
on Saturday, the fifth of May
two thousand and five
at five o’clock in the evening
First Church of Christ Scientist
265 Main Street
Hampton, South Carolina
Reception
immediately following the
ceremony
Hampton Country Club
Hampton, South Carolina
Civil Union/Commitment Ceremonies:
Civil Union/Commitment Ceremony – Both Sets of Parents Host:
Mr. and Mrs. Frank Tallman
And
Mr.
and Mrs. James Smithe
request the pleasure of your company
at the
Civil Union Ceremony of their sons
Andrew Lee Tallman
And
Frank Charles Smithe
on Saturday, the eighth of September
two
thousand and twelve
at seven o’clock in the evening
Ocean Bay Club
Provincetown, Massachusetts
Civil Union/Commitment Ceremony – Parent Host:
Mr. and Mrs. Ian Smith
request the
pleasure
of your company
at the Ceremony of Commitment
joining
their daughter
Lauren Marcie Smith
and
Julia Ann Plante
on
Saturday, the sixteenth of October
two thousand six
at three
o’clock in the afternoon
Northampton Vineyard & Winery
Northampton, Massachusetts
Reception
immediately following the
ceremony
Civil Union/Commitment Ceremony – from the couple:
Glenn D. Smithe
and
Evan Jan Thomas
invite you to share in a Commitment Ceremony
joining them as a
couple
Saturday, the eighth of September
two o'clock in the
afternoon
Bay Bridge Garden House
100 Bay Bridge View Lane
San
Francisco, California
Reception to immediately follow
Reception/Response Cards
Reception Invite Wording 1:
Reception
immediately following the
ceremony
Springfield Yacht Club
555 East Tidewater Road
Springfield, Texas
Reception Invite Wording 2:
We look forward to celebrating with you!
Feast & Merriment to follow
immediately after the ceremony
Hampton Vineyard & Winery
Hampton, Oregon
Response Card Wording 1:
The favor of a reply is requested before
May 14th, 2006
Name ______________________
Please indicate
dinner preference:
___ Prime Rib
___ Grilled Salmon
Response
Card Wording:
The favour of a reply is requested
by the first day
of June
M_________________________________________
_____________ will attend
_____________
will not attend
Response Card Wording 2:
Please respond by September 15th
Name _______________________
____ Will come (wouldn’t miss it for the
world)!
____ Sorry, we just can’t make it
Wedding Invitation - Envelope Wording
Below are various examples of the wording for formal wedding invitation inner and outer envelopes. If you are not using both envelopes all invited guest(s)' names should appear on the single envelope.
Single Guests
OUTER Envelope |
INNER Envleope |
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Unmarried Woman over 18 or a Divorced Woman who retains her maiden name: |
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Miss (or Ms.) Amy Smithers |
Miss (or Ms.) Smithers and Guest |
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Divorced Woman who uses her married name |
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Mrs. Amy Carter |
Mrs. Carter and Guest |
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Unmarried or Divorced Man |
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Mr. Howard Croft |
Mr. Croft and Guest |
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Couples |
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OUTER Envelope |
INNER Envleope |
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Married Couples |
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Mr. and Mrs. Stanley Caldwell |
Mr. and Mrs. Caldwell |
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Married Couple - Woman kept maiden name |
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Mrs. Carol Thompson and
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Mrs. Thompson |
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Unmarried couples who do not share the same residence. You should send the invitation to the closest friend. |
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Miss (or Ms.) Amy Carter |
Miss (or Ms.) Carter
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Unmarried couples who live together address alphabetically by last name |
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Miss (or Ms.) Amy Carter
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Miss (or Ms.) Carter
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Same gender couples - alphabetically by last name |
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Miss (or Ms.) Melissa Franklyn
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Miss (or (Ms.) Franklyn
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Children over 18 years old should be considered adults and recive their own invitation, even if still at the home of their parents who will also be invited to your wedding. |
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Miss Amy Atwater
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Miss Atwater and Guest
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Other |
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OUTER Envelope |
INNER Envleope |
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Judge |
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The Honorable Thurgood Thompson (if
single) |
Judge Thurgood |
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Doctor (Medical) |
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Doctor Michael Stokes (If single)
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Doctor Stokes and Guest
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Doctor (Ph.D.) |
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Dr. Harry Keller |
Dr. Harry Keller and Guest |
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Married Woman Doctor |
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Doctor Patricia Neddles
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Doctor Neddles |
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Married Couple, Both Doctors |
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Doctors Sam and Mary Helper |
The Doctors Helper |
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Clergy |
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The Reverend Jeremiah Whetheral |
The Reverend Whetheral |
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Officer - Male who is active duty or retired from the service |
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General and Mrs. Barry Lynch |
General and Mrs. Lynch |
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Officer - Female who is active duty or retired from the service |
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Captain Sandra Kellerman, U.S. Army
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Captain Kellerman
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Wedding Programs
Wedding Program 1:
THE MARRIAGE SERVICE OF
Lisa Marie Smith
and
Tyler Reno Plante
Saturday, May 5, 2008
6:00 p.m.
Saint Anne’s Church
Hampton, New Hampshire
Prelude
Liebestraum
Liszt
PROCESSIONAL
Wedding March
Wagner
SOLO
Jennifer Plante
You Light Up My Life
WEDDING MESSAGE
Reverend Parker Niles
EXCHANGE OF VOWS
THE BENEDICTION
RECESSIONAL
March Triumphant
Sassmannshausen
THE BRIDE’S PARENTS
Lily and Robert
Smith
THE GROOM’S PARENTS
Helena and Scott Plante
ORGANIST
Anne Quinn
THE WEDDING PARTY
MATRON of HONOR
Rose Ann Vann
BEST MAN
David Young
BRIDESMAIDS
Anne Bonnie
Kelly
Plante
Kate Max
GROOMSMEN
Evan Smith
Kyle Willow
James
Jones
FLOWER GIRL
Dottie Smith
RING BEARER
Charles Smith
USHERS
Bruce Miller
Ian Proud
Devin Smith
Wedding Program 2:
THE WEDDING CEREMONY OF
Lisa Marie Smith
and
Tyler Reno Plante
Saturday, May 5, 2008
6:00 p.m.
Saint Anne’s Church
Hampton, Maryland
PRELUDE
Liebestraum
Liszt
Clair De Lune Debussy
THE PROCESSIONAL
Canon in
D…………………………..Pachelbel
SOLO
The Greatest of These is Love Jenn
Plante
CANDLE CEREMONY
The bride will light a candle in memory of
her beloved grandmother, Sophie Smith.
WEDDING ADDRESS
MARRIAGE
VOWS
SOLO
Lisa & Tyler’s Song Jenn Plante
PRESENTATION OF
THE COUPLE
RECESSIONAL
March Triumphant Sassmannshausen
Parents of Bride Lily & Robert Smith
Parents of the Groom
Helena & Scott Plante
Officiant Rev. Parker Niles
Organist
Anne Quinn
THE WEDDING PARTY
Maid of Honor Rose Ann
Vann
Bridesmaids Anne Bonnie
Kelly Plante
Kate Max
Best
Man David Young
Groomsmen Evan Smith
Kyle Willow
James Jones
Flower Girl Dottie Smith
Ring Bearer Charles Smith
Ushers
Bruce Miller
Ian Proud
Devin Smith
Noah Walker
Wedding Program 3:
The Marriage Service of
Lisa Marie Smith
and
Tyler Reno Plante
Saturday, May 5, 2008
6:00 p.m.
Saint Anne’s Church
Hampton, Delaware
PRELUDE
SOLO
You’ve Got A
Way……………………………………………………… Troccoli
LIGHTING OF CANDLES
SEATING OF MOTHERS
PROCESSIONAL
Canon in
D………………………..…………………………………… Pachelbel
WEDDING PROCESSIONAL
from the “Sound of
Music” …………………………… Rodgers-Hammerstein
INVOCATION
SOLO
Never Thought I Could
Love……..………………………………………… Hill
PASTORAL CHARGE
MARRIAGE VOWS
EXCHANGE OF RINGS
ANNOUNCEMENT OF MARRIAGE
SOLO
I Will Be
Here………………………………..………………………… Chapman
PRESENTATION OF BRIDE AND GROOM
RECESSIONAL
Parents of Bride ……………………………………….……. Lily & Robert Smith
Parents of the Groom ……………………………..……. Helena & Scott Plante
Officiant ………………………………………….………… Father Parker Niles
Organist ……………………………………...…..……………. Mrs. Anne Quinn
Pianist …………………………………………………………… Mr. Glenn Boyd
Soloist …..……………………………………...…………… Ms.
Jennifer Plante
THE WEDDING PARTY
Matron of Honor ………………...………………………… Mrs. Rose Ann Vann
Bridesmaids ……...…………………………………………… Ms. Anne
Bonnie
Miss Kelly Plante
Mrs. Kate Max
Best Man ….…………………………………..……....……… Mr. David Young
Groomsmen …………………………………….……………… Mr. Evan
Smith Mr. Kyle Willow
Mr. James Jones
Flower Girl ……………..…………………………………………… Dottie Smith
Ring Bearer ………………………………………………………… Charles Smith
Ushers ……………………………………………...…..……………. Bruce
Miller
Ian Proud
Devin Smith
Noah Walker
Candle Lighting ……………………………………………..Miss Isabella Quinn
Wedding Announcements
Announcement cards are sent on the day of or shortly after a wedding if there were no invitations sent. They are often sent instead of invitations to friends who live distances prohibiting easy attendance to the ceremony. Announcements require no acknowledgment although it is customary for the recipient to send either a brief note expressing their best wishes; a gift is always appropriate but not required. The announcement can either be made on a formal invitation card or on fine cotton-fiber wedding stationery. Below are preferred forms for the announcement card:
Wedding Announcement – from the couple:
Lisa Marie Smith
and
Tyler Reno
Plante
are pleased to announce their marriage
on
Saturday, May
5, 2008
Saint Anne’s Church
Hampton, Illinois
Wedding Announcement – Parents of the Bride
Mr. and Mrs. Robert Evans Smith
have the
honour of announcing
the marriage of their daughter
Lisa Marie
to
Mr. Tyler Reno Plante
on Saturday, the fifth of May
two
thousand and eight
Save The Date
One element where formality is not necessary. Have fun! Even if you are having a formal wedding you can still use a casual voice with your Save the Date cards. Just be sure to include your names, the date, place (optional) and mention that an invitation will follow.
Rehearsal Dinners
Rehearsal Dinner:
Please join us for a Rehearsal Dinner
Honoring
Lisa Marie Smith
And
Tyler Reno Plante
On the eve of their Wedding Day
Friday
the fourth of May
Two thousand and five
Harbor Lights Club
100 Orca Way
Greenfield, Alaska
Bridal Showers
Bridal Shower Invite:
Let us shower
Kelly
with love and
good wishes
at a Bridal Shower
Sunday, August 12th, 2006
2:00
PM
Mulberry Café
Ware, Colorado
RSVP by July 30th to Charlene
800.555.1212
Registered at…. www.WareMall.com
Password…. Kelly’s Wedding
New Address Announcements
New Address Announcement:
Lisa Smith Plante
Tyler Reno Plante
are pleased to announce their marriage
We now reside at:
1001 Brandywine Lane
Amherst,
Vermont
New Address Announcement 2:
Mr. and Mrs. Tyler Plante
are pleased to
announce
their new address:
Sheffield Estates
123 Brandywine
Drive
Hampton, Idaho
and telephone:
(800) 555-1212
Adoption and Birth Announcements
Adoption Announcement:
In celebration of the adoption
of our
daughter
Ivy Rose
March 5th, 2005
please join us for
dinner
on Saturday, the twentieth of March
4 p.m.
at our home
Mr. and Mrs. Tyler Plante
Birth Announcement:
In celebration of the birth of our son
Toby
October 16th, 2004
please join us for a buffet
on
Saturday, the sixth of November
4 o'clock in the afternoon
at our
home
Mr. and Mrs. Tyler Plante
First Communions
First Communion 1:
Mary and Edward Young
would be pleased
to have you join them
at a celebration in honor of
the First Holy
Communion
for their daughter
Olivia Rose
Sunday, May 16th,
2006
at ten-thirty in the morning
First Church of Christ
Agawam, Connecticut
First Communion 2:
Cole Boyd
would like you to join him and
his family
as he celebrates his First Holy Communion
Sunday, the
10th of May
Mass at 10 o'clock in the morning
St. Anne’s
Church
Reception immediate following the ceremony
RSVP to Karen Boyd
by May 1st
800.555.1212
Bar/Bat Mitzvahs
Bar Mitzvah 1:
With great pleasure we invite you
to
share our happiness
at the Bar Mitzvah
of our son
Ira Jacob
on Saturday, October Sixteenth, 2005
at 10 o'clock in the morning
Beth El Synagogue
Jackson, New York
Hannah and Ned Schwartz
Bar Mitzvah 2:
Please join us as our son
Ira Jacob
is called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah
Saturday, the sixteenth of
October
two thousand and five
at 10:00 o'clock in the morning
Beth El Synagogue
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
Hannah and Ned Schwartz
Bat Mitzvah 1:
Ruth and Silas Bernstein
joyously invite
you to share their happiness
when their daughter
Hannah Ann
celebrates her Bat Mitzvah
Saturday the sixteenth of May
two
thousand and five
at nine-thirty in the morning
Beth El Temple
Minneapolis, Minnesota
Bat Mitzvah 2:
In the tradition of her ancestors
our
beloved daughter
Miriam Ruth
will be called to the Torah
as a
Bat Mitzvah
We invite you to worship with us
and share in our joy
Saturday, May 16th, 2005
Sinai Temple
Warren, Utah
Judith and Elias Jacobs
Graduations
Graduation Party 1:
Mr. and Mrs. Harlan Smith
cordially
invite you to attend a
Graduation Party
for our daughter
Roberta Ann
on Sunday, the twelfth of June
at One o'clock in
the afternoon
123 King Street
Three Rivers, Wisconsin
Graduation Party 2:
Roberta Smith
request your presence at
a Graduation party
on Sunday, the twelfth of June
at one
o'clock in the afternoon
123 King Street
Three Rivers, Wisconsin
Four years of friendship
and we shall
soon be moved
to distances apart
Anniversaries
Anniversary – Hosted by General Family 1:
Our family
cordially invites you
to
join us for a special night
honoring the
25 years of marriage of
Ralph and Alison Moore
Saturday, the twelfth of July
two
thousand and six
at 7 o'clock
Blues Club Restaurant
Bridgeview,
Chicago
Kindly respond by July 1st
800.555.1212
to Lise Moore
Anniversary – Hosted by General Family 2:
Memories are created by sharing
special
moments with loving
family and friends
In honor of the
50th Wedding Anniversary
of
Ian and Mary Morgan
their children and grandchildren
request the pleasure of your company
at a dinner celebration
on Saturday the 16th of October
two thousand seven
at 5
o'clock in the evening
Harbor Lights Club
100 Orca Way
Greenfield, Oregon
Debutante
Debutante Invite – Dinner:
Mr. and Mrs. David Smith
request the
pleasure of your company
at dinner
in honor of their daughter
Shelby Ann
Saturday, the eleventh of June
Two thousand and
five
at seven o'clock in the evening
Tiara Estate
100 River
View Road
South Hampton, South Carolina
Debutante Invite – Tea:
Mr. and Mrs. David Smith
request the
pleasure of your company
at a Tea
in honour of their daughter
Shelby Ann
Saturday, the eleventh of June
Two thousand and
five
at four o'clock in the afternoon
Tiara Estate
Honeysuckle
Road
North Hampton, North Carolina
Debutante Invite – Dance:
Mr. and Mrs. David J. Smith
request the
pleasure of your company
at a dance
in honor of their daughter
Shelby Ann
Saturday, the eleventh of June
Two thousand and
five
at seven o'clock in the evening
Wood Lawn
100 Cypress
Road
Hampton, Mississippi
Debutante Invite – Dance Response Card:
A favor of a reply is requested by May 30, 2005
M ________________________
Please
indicate if you will be
joining us for the Ball
____ will attend
Number of persons attending ____
____ will not attend
Teas and Garden Parties
Ladies Tea:
Ladies Tea
in the Gardens of
Mr. and
Mrs. W. Harlan Smith
Saturday, the fifth of June
at four o'clock
in the afternoon
Tanglewood
Cold Springs, Georgia
Garden Party:
You are cordially invited
for cocktails
and dinner
in our gardens
Saturday, the fifth of June
at four
o'clock in the afternoon
Tanglewood
Madison, Kentucky
Mr. and Mrs. Harlan Smith
RESOURCE:
For more information, see Letitia Baldridge's Complete Guide to the New Manners for the '90s, Letitia Baldridge, Rawson Associates, 1990
Select Your Wording:
Wedding Invite - from parents of the Bride
Wedding Invite - from parents of the Bride and including parents of the groom
Wedding Invite - from mother (if Father is deceased) and not remarried
Wedding Invite - from Father (if Mother is deceased) and has not remarried
Wedding Invite – from Mother and Step-Father
Wedding Invite - from Father and Step-Mother
Wedding Invite – from parents (which have remarried)
Wedding Invite – from parents who are divorced (but not remarried)
Wedding Invite – from divorced Mother
Wedding Invite – from parents of the Groom
Wedding Invite – from both the parents of the Bride and the Groom
Wedding Invite – from the couple themselves – Formal Wording
Wedding Invite – from the couple themselves – Informal Wording
Civil Unions/Commitment Ceremonies
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